提到什么是啊,我最推崇的定义之一,来自《歌林多前书》:
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
( 4 愛是長久忍耐、和藹仁慈的。愛不嫉妒,不吹噓,不自大,5 不罔顧規矩,不求自己的利益,不輕易動怒,不計較別人所加的傷害,6 不因不義而歡喜,只因真理而高興。7 愛能凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事希望,凡事忍耐。)
也基于此,我不能认同很多分不清爱和占有的行为,类似于这种:
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